I had a revelation the other day in the midst of an angry attitude and thoughts of it only being cured by driving through the Starbucks drive through. I noticed a large black crow in the driveway and I felt an eary feeling of death as I approached it. At that very moment I thought of the people who I have not forgiven and if they were to die today my last memory with them would be filled with a disgust that is not a part of my character. I discovered in that moment that even if things were not ok, I did not want to live with that fear any longer. I discovered an opportunity to change, what influences you to change? What pushes you to be a better person?